Did you know that you have the power to attract a mate with the qualities that you want and desire?
How do you do this?
Well, first you must know exactly what you want. You should come up with a list of all the things that you would like to attract in a partner and write them down. You can write things such as loving, caring, encouraging, honest and a faithful partner.
You can write anything that you can imagine. Only you know what you want. You can be as specific as to say that you want an attractive mate, you can list eye color, hair color, height, build, etc.
If you are having trouble coming up with things, just think of the things that you disliked in your previous relationships and turn them into what you would like.
If the person you were with was miserable, ask for a happy person. If the person you were with wasn’t adventurous enough ask for a person that is more adventurous.
Come up with a specific list of what you would like to attract in a mate, the list can be as long or as short as you want.
My list was two pages long. I tried not to leave out anything. And, if I thought of something the next day, I would just add it to my list then. You can always add or delete something from your list. It is your list.
And, make sure you add how this person makes you feel. The Universe responds vibration rather than words.
So while you are thinking of your mate in a loving and happy way, the Universe will respond to your vibrations by bringing you more of what you are feeling.
Once you have attracted the person that you desire, you will be surprised of all the traits that you have listed that your significant other has.
I know I was truly amazed at my results. I met someone with almost everything on my list it was amazing.
And for those of you that are in relationship. Please know that you cannot or should not ask for a partner to come to you, when you already have a partner because that is contradicting. This set off another Universal Law; The Universal Law of Karma. Always remember you get what you put out. But you do have free will so you can do as you like.
If you are in a relationship that you don’t feel honors you, you may want to remove yourself from that situation before you ask for someone else. You should want to start off your new relationship in the best way possible, free from negativity. Read more on how to use the Law of Attraction to move on after a break up.
Now here is the part where we take action, in order to attract a mate you desire, you must first believe that you are worthy of such a mate.
If you want to attract a mate that is happy, then you must first become happy. If you want a attract a mate that is trustworthy, then you must become trustworthy. If you want to attract a mate that is loving, you must too become loving.
In order to attract a mate with the qualities that you want you must first become the person you want to attract.
The Law of Attraction always put people together that are a vibrational match. This is an attraction based Universe and you get what you put out. Remember Like attracts Like!
Next you must use your imagination, imagine how you would feel if this person was in your life right now. How does it feel? Good feelings are the best way to attract all things that you desire.
I would imagine myself on a beautiful island with the person that I desired. I would imagine walking hand and hand on the beach, just loving and enjoying each other.
I would image what our life would be like at home, receiving flowers every day, laughing and enjoying each others company or just being happy when we see each other after a long days work.
Use your imagination. Just sit and relax and picture it in your mind like a movie, make it a vivid picture and make it as real as possible.
And it is best not to have a specific person in mind, let the Law of Attraction bring the person that you desire to you.
But if you do have a specific person in mind it is definitely possible to attract that person to you, because I have accomplished this, read here: but remember you cannot make someone want to be with you. Everyone has their own wants and desires and you will only attract this person into your life experience if they also want the same thing.
And always be hopeful, hopeful that the universe is in fact filled with the person that you desire. You must then believe that this person will come into your life. You must see him or her as here now!
You must say things like I am happy to have man or women of my dreams. I love him or her so much. I can't wait to get home to that person.
It is a way to get yourself into the thought process that he or she is here now causing you to send out a strong vibration to the universe that you already have what you desire and it will give you more of what you are feeling.
Because by asking yourself after a few days where he or she is; you are giving attention to the lack of not having something and the Universe will respond to your feelings of lack and give you more of what you are giving your attention to and it will take a longer time for you to receive what you are asking for.
You must BELIEVE! Believe in the fact that you will get exactly what you desire.
Some people will be able to attract a mate faster than others which just means they are in alignment with their thoughts so they are able to attract what they want a little quicker.
Others will take more time in order to come into alignment with their thoughts and beliefs in what they desire. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing. I know sometimes we want things now, now, now!
But, it is always best to come into alignment with what you want so you will attract what you truly desire and you will be ready for it once it is actually here.
For example, I have a friend that jumped into a relationship right after she broke up with her boyfriend. Her self-esteem was low and she didn’t really have a positive outlook on relationships.
And because she didn’t give herself time to focus on what she wanted in a new relationship, she ended up attracting a person that had the same exact negative thoughts and feelings that she had and needless to say that relationship did not work. Like Attracts Like!
That’s why it is best to know what you want first in a partner, and then practice those good feeling thoughts and once you start feeling good and you begin to believe, you will come into alignment with what you want in a relationship and the person that you desire will show up.
And don’t worry about how or where this person will show up; the Universe will take care of those details for you.
The Universe will choose the path in which you will meet. You just need stay focused on what you want in a partner and know that you deserve to have whatever you want.
Some ways to keep you motivated until he or she comes. You can watch love movies with happy endings. Stay away from movies with infidelity or any type of movies that end badly. Listen to love songs. I made an entire cd with happy love music. Play the relationship game.
Make a vision board, cut out pictures of loving couples, little cute babies, if that’s what you want. Find wedding pictures; find the ring that you want.
Write positive affirmations on your board such as “I am worthy to receive all that I desire”. Make it fun and place it in an area where you will be able to see it every day.
You must trust that we always get what we are asking for whether it is good or bad. You just have to give it good thought with great emotions and then allow it come into your life.
The Universe is generous so whether we are trying to attract a mate or anything else, it is happy to give us anything that we desire as long as we are clear in our asking and happy in the anticipation of receiving.
Ask, have fun and enjoy the ride until it is given.
Sending Love and Happiness,
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